Okay here is a starting point, I've started a page on writing a remote client for MCEBuddy, feel free to add to give feedback on how to improve it.
https://mcebuddy2x.codeplex.com/wikipage?title=Writing%20a%20Remote%20Client%20for%20MCEBuddy
https://mcebuddy2x.codeplex.com/wikipage?title=Writing%20a%20Remote%20Client%20for%20MCEBuddy